you of course obviously mean well with your innocent question but bad actors use the type of questions you would ask as a means of harassment and time wasting for people and make it more difficult for you. You should be upset at them not the targets of their harassment.
before you assume your question is too nuanced or specific to find on your own via search please just try typing your exact question into a search engine. Even if you don't find the direct answer you can maybe find enough background information to present as a show of good faith to the stranger you are asking the time of to answer your question.
A big problem with the fediverse is the fragmentation of threads. I see folks refering to conversations that happened in threads but I cannot see half the posts in the thread.
Everyone viewing the same conversation can get very different viewpoints from only seeing one side of a conversation.
This isn't the cause of problems we have but I imagine it certainly exacerbates them.
race, placating whiteness
I feel like, having grown up surrounding by whiteness my general social skills are suffused through with placating whiteness in strange and insidious ways I don't see myself?
Like my telling white people their awful and fucked up is somehow couched in comforting whiteness more then other black folks just trying to live their lives?
I dunno what I'm doing differently that makes white folks so comfortable but I want to learn so I can stop it.
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United States but like please don't hold that against me.